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Treated As A Equal

There was a post on Fetlife the other day that I found quite interesting.  The topic was about subs and slave being equal to their Dom or Master. It got me to thinking do I consider myself my Master’s equal? So, I had a conversation with him and we actually thought the same thing. When it comes to me being his slave, I am not his equal. I do not have the power he has in our relationship. I do as I am told and I sit at his feet. That does not add up to being equal to my Master. On the other hand when it comes to making decisions as to my daughter’s life or our health choices and certain life things we are equal. 

Some subs said that because they were respected, loved and well taken care of in their relationship it made them equal.  Then one person said two halves make a whole, so that makes them equal. Well, here is my confusion…if a sub or slave says okay I am yours and I give my life over to you and we talk about  things but your decision is what goes and I am going to follow your orders and obey you and then they say they are equal to their Dom or Master, doesn’t make sense to me.

A Dom or Master can value his sub or slave thoughts, opinions and her feelings and that does not make her his equal. I serve my Master, I submit to him and I sit at his feet. to me that is not equal at all. And to tell you the truth, I don’t want to be considered his equal….I would not be his slave then in my opinion. That’s my thought for the day…..

Here is the link